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Starting out the new year, I’ve been focusing on figuring out how to balance a soft life (a life of ease, feminine life, etc) with discipline (having structure, masculine energy). this has been a bit of a challenge for me, since all my life i was used to being in hustle mode up until I started working for myself. I spent 2022 learning how to relax and go with the flow, but now I feel ready to implement more structure into my day to day routine & prioritize productivity. In this week’s vlog, I take you guys with me as I try to approach discipline from a place of love rather than shame, go into do not disturb mode / spend time alone to focus on myself, & reflect on the fact that I’m growing up & adulting very much has a learning curve.
watch more:
the one mindset shift that will change your life – https://youtu.be/ZxPZE3nLCWg.
rough week, sick again, christmas with fam | days in my life – https://youtu.be/HPvk0AGB4QM
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Your too into your head learn to just life your life no explanations get closer to GOD and keep being you i love the content because you show every aspect of what your life pertains but enjoy yourself and relax instead of getting overwhelmed or getting anxious
A woman that wants to hold her self accountable is rare these days. You might just be one of the 5%ers. Hats off for that and you staying home on a Friday night, Commendable. Long run your friends will b jealous of that move. [Tobe Nwigwe- I’m dope]
Your videos help me so much thank u!!!
u can get ur protein thru nuts!! and different powders like flaxseed, collagen, & nutritional yeast
How is ur sisters twin not your sibling?
You should move to Houston.
It’s very diverse and has good prices.
loll ur a whole mood this entire video
8:09 so relatable!!!!!
Love you girl! You're such a vibe and I want more vlogs from you please because I feel like I'm actually hanging out with you when in reality I am not lol but you get it hopefully lol.
Ngl you make me laugh LOOL, love you and the transparency !!!
i haven’t even watched this whole video and i cannot thank you enough for showing what happened when you tried to clean.
I’ve been so so hard on myself throughout the years because i never believed i was a “normal” person, i’ve always thought i was odd and lazy.
Seeing you do exactly what happens to me sometimes was SUCH a relief you don’t even know.
I can tell the rest of this video is going to allow me to forgive and love myself fully.
Thank you so much for what you do and sharing this side to yourself. I appreciate you so much, bless you ❤
Edit: i literally relate to you SO MUCH like WHAT
it’s crazy to see how someone like me who i considered myself lazy to be successful (I know that sounds SO BAD, i promise i don’t mean it like that 😭)
You were being so hard on yourself for the volume thing i was literally like “i didn’t notice” but GIRL THE RELATABILITY AHHHH You gotta breathe girl!!!
What i’ve learnt is to not force it and to do what i want to do and make sure i’m enjoying productivity and if i’m not to change perspective.
If i’m in a really bad place trying to change perspective gets me in a pattern of trying to change (i.e not being good enough or happy where i am) so watch out for the frustrations of THAT!!
made my day by uploading this!! feeling lazy yet pushing myself through all my tasks past couple of days ahsjdhsj, your videos make my day better nevertheless. peace and love <3
I love you content so much
This is aging lol, we're buying plants, staying home, drinking less, becoming financially literate and loving it. I've had this talk with my friend too and man it is a weird adjustment
Girl you've got the best content! Thanks for being so authentic. Also, you've got someone in the comment sections impersonating you and telling them to WhatsApp them for big prizes. Maybe do a community post saying its not you!! Love and light <3
Lynette these vlogs are actually so grounding!! A lot of what you have said are things I've been meditating on love the transparency 🙌🏾🌹
I felt her on that not tryna finish the conversation shit
“Don’t judge me. I didn’t clean anything.” Lynette is too real, why is that me 😅
Hey Lynette, you receive a shout out from @sheiscelestee who also makes content on You Tube. It will be soo cool to see you two have a 1 on 1 interview or a guest on each other channel. This was a good video. Salute
lol! I should've done dry January
How have to water the relationships you care for if you respect them and want to keep them. Sometimes that looks like doing things you wouldn’t necessarily want to do which others may be even more appreciative of you being so considerate of them.
Hi Lynette, I loved the vlog, would you consider doing a video on how you edit your videos?
You’re so real 💙
OMG I hate texting too and it makes people so upset. Like just call me if it’s important or we can talk when I see you. “It takes 5 seconds to send a text”… but it takes much longer to upkeep a conversation, plus if there’s multiple people texting me… so yes it becomes a time and energy consuming activity. Why do people feel others are obligated to always answer their texts (random ones, not urgent or important ones)….
What do you meaan My sisters twin? Hypothesises I came up with 1)messing up the sentence? 2) removed said twin from your life so she’s now your sisters twin only? 3) this a spiritual term for something profound??? Pls
Thank you for this video. It’s crazy how connected I feel to you. It’s like as you experience certain energies, you’re attracted to the people who are also on a similar wavelength. I was drawn to your video today and a few others in the past few months & they’re always so reassuring. It’s relieving to know people are struggling with the same internal push and pulls that I am. (If that makes sense).
I’ve been so hard on myself lately bc I struggle with the abundance mindset of letting go of fear and doing what I want (shopping for self care when I didn’t have the money, sleeping way past the time I told myself I was going to, allowing myself to skip certain tasks that are actually super important to my growth) and then feeling guilty for it afterwards or telling myself I’m gonna do it all tomorrow and then the cycle repeats. I know I just gotta find balance and take things slow but learning that is challenging. It’s a dance I guess
I love your Vlogs!! Like catching up with a good friend ❤
That first part you mentioned about nothing mattering but also making the most of our human form is ringing so true to me!!!!
love your tee shirt!
I love watching your videos they’re so relaxing & you make me feel less alone in the world. Thank you for making content 💜
i never comment but i love watching your videos, it's really relaxing and inspiring!
I reccomend reading money mastered the game by tony robbins to anyone looking for a good financial book. Lots of fluff that sets up for incredible conversation, steps & financial advice. 25:28
It's has been so fun to follow you from the days you worked at Amazon to now and see you living your dream <3 I'm still working towards my dream slowly but surely and your channel really encourages me to keep on going.
Can you talk a bit more about hormone health and your tattoos (maybe I missed that one)?
Oh and I feel like you would like the series 'Severance' !!!
do you have a podcast cuz i could listen to you talk for HOURS!! your advice is life changing for me
I can tell you discipline yourself… fine ass
Can you do a video on your content creation schedule? ex what each day is dedicated to. For example you mentioned Friday is an admin day, what do you do on the other weekdays? How often do you aim to upload? Thanks!
I love how realistic you are tbh I'm trying to do the same things this year. It's nice knowing that I'm not the only one 😭
Last year I started working for myself. It was so freeing but also got me in a negative self talk loop of over analyzing my productivity. It took me a full year of stressing my routine (or rhythm) before I discovered time blocking. Planning my days the day before allow me to meet my goals while also prioritizing my feminine energy everyday through planned breaks + embodiment practices. Stoicism really helped me channel this divine masculine energy! <3 Thank you for being so honest and sharing this battle, it feels so good to know I'm not the only one struggling with their soft structure!
You’re so authentic and it’s appreciated
Thank you
You better put some peanut butter or something in those oats! Self care means a nutritious AND delicious breakfast, don’t do that to yourself queen! 😂❤
Sisss when you said Doc B's my jaw dropped! My boyfriend used to manage that store location! lol love your vlogs girl keep it going
8:13 you’re spittinggggg I hate texting sm 😭 I love my friends but I hate feeling tied to my phone to continue a text conversation! Plus I truly feel like people have too much access and feel too entitled to our time, like if this was 30+ years ago we’d have to write letters to communicate long distance! We simply are not wired to communicate 24/7
OMG YOU LISTEN TO JOHNNY HARTMAN????
I can def relate to this … trying to be soft and still having to get shit done without losing your shit or yourself should be a resume skill tbh
The new year started with mercury in retrograde. It’s ok to be still and take your time.
As a gal who is nearly 17 now it's so comforting to watch all your videos. It really resonates things you say especially about hustle and consistent working. I spend time and energy so much on schoolwork and healing and listening to others but it gets draining sometimes. Last year a very traumatic event happened that stirred up alot of things so i am really trying to be more gentle and set up boundaries. thank you 💕💕
I could watch you all day everyday. It’s like I’m watching a reflection of myself
Lyn u r too hard on urself i honestly wouldn’t have noticed the audio if you hadn’t included the screen note abt it, take care of urself ❤
ok but i feel the same about texting 😭